You may have been told that women have one less rib than men, but this is not true, as both men and women have 24 ribs. You may have also been told that God made Eve from Adam’s rib, but this is not correct either, as God made Eve out of Adam’s ṣēlāʿ, a Hebrew word meaning, “side.” Perhaps this is why Adam declares that Eve is made of both his flesh and bone.
The image is one of a man split in half. Eve is not subservient or subordinate to Adam, rather, she is on the same exact level as him. She is his coequal, assigned to help with the same Godly mission that he has been assigned. While Jesus and other Bible characters prove to us that the single, celibate life is completely acceptable, the point of marriage is to strengthen us. Men and women can support one another by unifying their sides into one person. The cliché statement that we’re all looking for our other half has more biblical precedent than we once thought.
But how could God literally split Adam in half without killing him? Genesis 2:21 mentions that Adam was put into a tardēmâ or a “deep sleep.” Such tardēmâs were often supernaturally induced and occasionally came with powerful dreams and visions. That being said, while God may have put Adam into a tardēmâ for supernatural surgery, it’s also possible that Adam beheld an intense dream of being split in two and awoke to discover the interpretation: his new wife, Eve.
I’ve sensed the Holy Spirit communicate several important things to me in dreams, but there’s maybe only one dream I’ve had that I’d describe as something like a tardēmâ. I struggled immensely to discern the difference between the dream and reality, but as it went on, it felt like God was trying to tell me my own story in a way that might teach me a few things. There is much to be learned in such moments, and good theology and life decisions rest upon waking up from our tardēmâs with a willingness to understand what God is saying and doing.


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